11 november, 2010

5 good reasons to share an apartment ..and 5 good reasons not to.

I just started sharing an apartment with a friend, and while I love it, sometimes I catch myself considering jumping off a roof. Sharing your home is not for everyone, and most important is to find the right person to share it with. Therefore a list of the 5 best and worst things about sharing.

Top 5 good reasons to share an apartment.
1. You're never really alone. You know how you sometimes feel bored out of your mind because there's nothing to do around town, and everyone is t0o smashed to go anywhere (most commonly know as sunday). Well now you got someone to watch all those bad sunday afternoon programs with you. Cooking also becomes so much more cozy when you're two doing groceries, cooking and planing. Not to meantion you eat with company.

2. It's sooo much cheaper. The price difference betwen a one person apartment and a two persons apartment is not that big. Food also becomes far cheaper, plus you get to eat much more varied. The internet bill, the tv bill, there is suddenly so many bills that are cut in half for you!

3. People always drop by. For some reason there is a magical fomula called: 1 person living in the apartment = people come by when you arranged it. 2 persons living in the apartment = people drop by all the time. This of course is most fun when you have the same circle of friends.

4. If your friendship can last living together, you know your friendship can last most all things.

5. Share the mess! Suddenly it's not always your turn to do the chors around the apartment. Now, someone else goes around and do the dishes and vacume. Woo!

Top 5 good reasons not to..

1. You're never really alone. This can be as fustrating as it can be awesome. Somedays you just want everything to go according to your head or just want to be alone, and that's when you go home and lock the door. Unfortunally for you, you're nolonger the only person with a key!

2. Lack of privacy. Get used to it. Who ever is visiting, or whatever you're doing (or have lying around), someone is constantly around to witness it. That's just part of the deal you made.

3. If the friendship breakes for one reason or the other, you're pretty much screwed. Finding a new apartment can take time, and be costy. Additionally the friendship will often breake because you have to tolarate each other more than you can do in the long run. And a war at home is no fun. In addition to losing money and your home, if you force each other to move, you most likely also just lost a friendship.

4. Rythem issues. Are you a morning person? Then I hope for your sake, that your roomie is not a night person. If one person prefer the loud music at night with parties, and the other early in the morning when starting the day, and if you like few guests while your roomie wants people around all the time, you've choosen the wrong roomie.

5. Who does what? Agreeing on that in theory is one thing, executing that theory is another reality. Are you the only one who's doing the choors, or is your roomie complaning that s/he is? The smallest things can sometimes cause the biggest fights.

A few "How you survive IB" tips..

It's always so darn easy to look back and say to yourself "Why did I not do this???" "What was I thinking?!" or even better "If only I knew, what I know now..". Well, primarily the latter applies to IB for me, so here's a few things I wish someone had told me when I started the IB, and a few my fellow classmates should have been told as well.

Do your sceince reports!
Do not get fooled by the WL, the portfolios and the WT! In sceince subjects there are no kind of assignment except for your reports, this meaning that it is THOSE reports they will be grading, and sending to IBO. So while you might be able to get away with skipping assignments in other subjects, for heavensake do your sceince reports, or you will pay a heavy price, and possible points!, for it later on.

Always compare and contrast
Almost everything you do in the IB is about compare and contrast. In history, English, Mathmathics, TOK, yes almost all and any subjects this groundrule applies. Whether it is comparing and contrasting two stylistic devices or protagonits in English, the results of your experiments in biology, the different ways of reasoning and knowing in TOK, or.. well, you get the idea. Whatever you do, donnot EVER forget to compare and contrast! In other words: Make a statements, argu for it, then argue against it, and then make a comeback argument for it.

Sparknotes - moderate use ONLY
When discussing a book in your language subjects you will always get more out of the discussion if you have actually read the homework for today. However, we all know that in IB, sometimes you do not have time for it all, and often language subjects (english esspecially) gets sacrificed. Why? Because for an IB, language, especially english, isn't a subject that's allowed to make you nervous anyway. Next time you really donnot have time for reading your english homework, hit up sparknotes.com, which suprisingly often is capable of explaining you a 40 page chapter in 500 words! (Use moderately, otherwise you will end up missing out on very important stylistics!)

Do the big assignments ON TIME
And I mean the really big ones: WL, EE, Portfolios, Projects, TOK essays, WT, HI, Projects, etc. If you get behind with just one of these assignments, it can very quickly eat you up from the indside, and you will end up getting (even more) stressed, and fall behind on other assignemnts, homework or worse case senario: other big assignments. It is a hole from which there is sometimes no way out of. 

Don't fail on CAS
Short and simple, keep up the CAS work! You do not want to fail IB because you did not do your CAS or do it properly, you do not, repeat, do not want that to happen. Therefore prioritise your CAS and get it gone in very good time, otherwise your will end up with no time to finnish it. 

Do not underestimate EE!
Many students look forward to write their EE (while many do not) because they get to make their own choice in an IB related matter for once. However, be very careful, the classic and almost mandatory EE mistake is to underestimate your challenge. EE is not like anything else you will encounter in IB, even if it might look similar in some ways, it's a one of a kind, and it's timeconsuming more than anything else you will encounter.

Choose an EE topic you're already familiar w/
There are many interesting things in the world you can choose to investigate in your EE. That being said, do yourself a favour and choice something that's already in your curriculum in the IB. The amount of knowledge you need to do a good EE is beyound imagination of a pre-EE IB student. Therefore you will need all the background knowledge and approach experience you could possibly have, and school provide that very well.

Don't EVER plagarise
It's just not worth it. There's a 99% chance you'll get caught, and the consequences (especially in IB) are disaterous! If you feel like you can't figure out an assignment, ask for help. You're in IB, it's perfectly allowed! IB is supposted to be difficult, and very very few - if any - IB students pass with good grades without asking for help at least once.

Communication
Are your ways starting to lead you into trouble? Talk to the school. The most simple thing is to go to your IB cordinatior, whos job it is to help you and make you pass IB. Of course you cannot go to your IB cordinator for every little thing, but if it's imporant it is in fact s/hes job to help you. For smaller things talk to your teachers (the nice ones at least) and your student-councillor, who's job it also is, to help you. Whatever it is, they have most likely seen and heard it all before, and have ideas of how to help you. It's always better for you to come to them and point out your problems, rather than them hunting you down, and pointing them out to you.

Just don't panic :-)
Whatever you do, breathe, don't painc, make an honest try. If you do this, ussually everything will work out alright in the end. When we fail at something while in IB, it is ussually because we did not make an honest try. So always remember, panic doesn't make you do things faster, it just makes you do more mistakes while you do it! :-)

28 februar, 2010

For heaven sake, stop reading and start reading!!

Yeah, so I've been disappearing a little as of lately. The horrible truth and scary secret behind my absence lately, is first vacation, which was meant as a study break, but then turned into a whole lot of not studying. The 2nd reason is that I'm currently finding myself in the middle of my mock exams (midterm exams). Not feeling like repeating this year, leads me to be rather stressed, and short of time for blogging.

I keep finding myself reading graphicjam.com, books unrelated to school or the subtitles on tv shows that I dislike (because I put it on mute on a bad channel to encourage myself to study). My brain has some strange lack of discipline, concentration and commitment at the moment it seems.. Did anyone say procrastinating?

Wait a minute.. what the hell am I doing in here blogging at this hour?? I need to be studying!

GTG!, I'll see you on the other side of mocks.

06 februar, 2010

Grammys: The best, the worst, and the weirdest!

The best
I'm not entirely sure which outfit I love the most, but both Keri Hilson and Taylor Swift looked stunning at the 2010 Grammys (and I usually don't really care for either).

Taylor Swift looked very old fashion glam with a touch of 21st century, and the hair really compliments the dress well. Despite her young age she actually looks almost regal (you know, like when Nicole Kidman pre the botox madness). I also love it fits her "good girl"-image without being boring, proving that you don't have to show a huge cleavage to be a stunner.

Up until I saw this photo of Keri Hilson, I'd honest completely forgot of her existence.. if she's a big star in the USA I don't know, but she is not very well known in Europe, I only remember her from that Timbaland MV. But this dress is amazing on her, and I adore the jewelery she added. One little problem is the hair: I don't hate it, but it pales in comparison with the dress.

The worst
 
Before I say anything else I'll like to admit that putting Beyonce´s dress in comparison to Britney Spears´ - eh - outfit, is unfair, because next to Britney she looks great!

The reason I really dislike Beyonce´s dress is mainly because of the fabric of the dress. It's just all wrong, and reminds me of a rug in my grandparents apartment (wait, actually they have better style than that).  Secondly I don't like the colour next to her skintone. The mermaid cut is obviously very flattering on Beyonce, but the zipper in the middle works against the mermaid cut. All in all I really dislike her dress, but her hair and make up looks great.

"No no no!", either it's time for Spears to fire her stylist, or it's time for her to hire one! I don't mean to be rude, but this outfit is just painful to look at. Most of all it reminds me of some parody of a  cheep-budget s&m madam/prostitute´s outfit, where they couldn't even afford fake leather for the corsage. Really, is this a case of "bad pr is better than no pr" or what? The outfit is incredibly unflattering for her body. Everything is just wrong here, even the shoes look bad with this.

The weirdests

Let's be captain obvious and start with Lady Gaga
.Worst of all is that she's very clearly trying waaaay too hard, to a point where she has ended up looking like a futuristic outfit from the 60's. If one is to do futurist it's crucial to do it with innovation, because otherwise you ended up looking like a bad joke like Gaga here. Had the shoes looked even slightly normal or been paired with a slightly normal outfit, they would actually have been fantastic, I love the material, but with the rest of the outfit it doesn't work. Had she removed all the rings from the dress it would actually have been fairly nice as well, and I adore the colour of the dress. But she just had to over do it. And her hair? I refuse to even comment on it's colours.

As for Rihanna: The cut of the dress is actually very beautiful, majestic and the colour is just right. The dress from the waist down is perfect, it flatters Rihanna´s body. But the material of the upper part is just all wrong! The shoulders material is all too thick and looks like it's made of plaster. The feathers should not be where they are, no matter how mature I try to be, looking at this picture of her I cannot help but to associate it with a hairy chest or a newly hatched duckling. She still looks much better than Gaga, but in this case, that's not particularly challenging, is it now?

(Image sources: billboard.com, eonline.com and onewed.com)

27 januar, 2010

Five fast ways to stay slender & healthy

Most of us will never have that perfect body we've always dreamt of, that is a fact. And this is not because we don't try, no, but simply because our definition of "the perfect body" has filled a divorce from reality somewhere during Kate Moss career peak in the 90's.

There are many dangerous weight loss pills, surgeries and extreme diets out there to get you into your dream size, but fact is that if they even do work short term, they are nothing but a quick fix, and be sure, that if you if it does not kill like some diets and pills will, the fat will be back in no time. But that doesn't mean that all hope is lost, and you will forever be doomed to wish yourself 10 pounds lighter, it just means it's time for a little patience and persistence. Loosing weight "the right way" doesn't mean that you have to turn into a health freak who never eats chocolate, it just means introducing a little thinking and planing into your lifestyle choices.

My five favourite ways to stay slender..

1. Sleep
This has got to be my faviourite way of staying in shape, because it's absolutely painless both physically and mentally. By sleep I do not mean "go sleep 20 hours and wake up a size 34!", obviously. Why I do point out sleep to be so important is because studies have in fact shown that people who get the recommended 8-10 hours of sleep at night, snack less (and get a higher metabolism). Sleeping those few extra hours will help you stay clear of that midday Marsbar, simply because those extra hours means you still have a good portion of energy on your own. And speaking of portion, that brings me to the next..

2. Portion control
I think it is quite a classic among weight loss tips. Staying fit doesn't mean never eating chips, chocolate and fast food, it means eating less chips, chocolate and fastfood. Say your food habits includes a pizza/McD's night once a week. Drop that for a moment and go for pizza/McDs night every other week instead. See it's not really that difficult, it's just a question of a little adjustment and a planing! Is the glass half empty or half full? It does indeed shift faster to the latter if you think of it this way: the less you let yourself snack, the more you'll appreciate the snacks! Not to mention how you'll save money on the fastfood/snacks you no longer eat.


3. Cook from scratch
It's very unlikely that those producing the processed food you eat is particularly concerned about your weight issues, and often not your health either (as long as it's not poison they're off the hook you know).  Fact is that in most cases your cooking from scratch would be healthier than the processed food version of the exact same dish.

The younger generation is often a little scared of cooking everything from scratch (so am I at times), but what I've learned is that often it's a lot easier than it looks, and it's a case of Übung macht Meister" (practice makes perfect), you do in fact learn really fast from your mistakes. So go out there and get yourself that good old fashion cooking book, it's a lot healthier and a lot cheep that all that 5 minutes food!


4. Know your food
Do you really know what your food is made of? Well if you took upon you the advice of cooking from scratch you're already on the road to being in control of what goes into your mouth and what does not. However there is another aspect to knowing what goes into your month as well. I'm talking about being aware of the effects of food. To quote a good friend of mine "everyone but the Amish people know that McDonald is bad for you!", but there's a lot more than that to it!

People's favourite argument against my vegetarianism is that it lowers my health because "you need all that protein from the meat, you can't get that else where", but yeah, in fact the very same proteins can be found in vegetarian things such as beans. What can however not be found in beans is the unhealthy (saturated) fat you find in meat (that's the kind stuff that clogs your arteries, makes you gain weight and raises your cholesterol level). And no, this is not me telling you to be a vegetarian, I believe in free choice, my point is that just because you think something in your diet is the better of two evils, doesn't make it so. I am not asking you to count calories and check the fat % percentage of all you eat, I am simply asking you to google up things such as "good and bad fats" and "what contains protein".

5. Water
Water is generally highly underrated (especially considering just how much an average person uses in a day). Water is just one of those few things out that's undeniably great for your body regardless of other factors or portion control (you know as in drinking a glass of red wine per day is good for you, but a whole bottle per day is really bad for you). It has lots of great minerals, it can replace such calorie bombs as cola and alcohol, it helps clean the pores in your face, and it generally detoxes your system. Not to mention you can drink as much as you want and never gain as much as a gram for it! It helps the body get rid of waste products you've obtained from things such as last nights McD or Friday´s party. So drink up!


And the worst way to stay slender is..
Smoking of course!
Smoking is very hazardious to your health in general, most people know about the damage it does to your lungs and the high cancer risk.. but that's only the tip of the iceberg! It is however helpful if you're hoping to shed those extra pounds (and that's not a recommendation) as it decreases your appetite and raises your metabolism. There are many unhealthy ways to lose weight, but the cigarette has got to be the worst.

Among the cigarette´s biggest competitors we find things such as anorexia and bulimia. I chose cigarettes as the worst because it requires a lot less will power, and because is generally a lot more comfortable than it's competitors.. at least until you're dying of lung cancer.

And here's a few things that almost made the top 5
Exercise - it's extremely obvious that exercise is very helpful when trying to lose weight, so because of the obviousness, I decided not to put it in the top 5.
Vegetarinism - A very effective way of staying slender, a lot of people does unfortunately find it very difficult to not eat meat.
Being honest - Don't try to pretend that you eat less or eat more healthy than you do. Being honest can get you far.. presuming that you're actually going to act upon that honesty. Your body will still recognise that cake even if you deny it.
Fruit - is the new Marsbar/popcorn/nachos! - or at least you should try to make it that. But it's a lot harder than it sounds.
Metabolism - Having a good metabolism is a very high factor in your weight (as it decides how fast your body naturally burns off the fats). Things that are known to increase metabolism includes: chilli, exercise, regular meals, green tea, apples and beans.
The leg rule - Remember those unhealthy fats I told you about earlier? Remember what I said about knowing your food? Well here's a great tip for all you meat lowers: the more legs it has, the more unhealthy and weight increasing it is. E.g:
Cow - has four legs: Very bad for you, lots of unhealthy fats!
Chicken - has two legs: Not nearly as bad for you, because they generally has less (unhealthy) fat.
Fish - no legs: The better alternative, fish is very rich in omega-3 (healthy) fat.

22 januar, 2010

Latests obsessions


I have decided to share a couple of songs that I'm currently completely hooked on.

1. Donovan - Season of the Witch [on youtube]
It´s actually 44 years old, but I just came across it very recently, and I haven't been able to let go of it ever since!

2. The Pretty Reckless - He loves you [on youtube]
I don't really have anything positive to say about the leadsinger, but it is good music and the vocals aren't bad either (although the bit I heard of the live performance makes me think the vocals are better live.. less polished.)

3. Flight Facilities - Crave You [on youtube]
Absolutely addictive! - with a fantastic old-fashion touch.

4. Jurga - 5th Season [on youtube]
I recently asked a Lithuanian friend of mine if she could show me some good Lithuanian music, and she showed me a few different things incl. this Jurga song which I'm now completely obsessed with!

5. Peaches - Trick or Treat [on youtube]
Peaches is the Queen of Electronic (as far as I'm concerned), and I adore her new song Trick or Treat!

6. Elton John - The Heart of Every Girl [on youtube]
Watched Mona Lisa smile recently and realized I was dying for the soundtrack. This is my all time favorite from the film.

7. Alphabeat - The Spell [on youtube]
Just when you've given up on Danish music you get a pleasant suprise!

8. Lou Bega - Mambo no. 5 [on youtube]
Oh so nice, and just full of childhood memories! Some 90's pop still works in 2010.

9. Skold vs KMFDM (pictured) - Love is Like [on youtube]
This need no explanation. I recently discovered this project, and 'm currently trying to find money for the CD!

10. Stevie Wonder - Isn't She Lovely [on youtube]
Stevie Wonder´s song for his daughter. Classic. Beautiful. Timeless

10 Positive outcomes of financial crisis

The financial crisis is everywhere.. It's on the news, it's in your homes, it jumps with you into to bed at night. Living is suddenly at a very high price.

But there's good sides to it as well, and therefore i bring you my very own top 10 positive things about the crisis.

1. Just like the 1930's generation we'll from now on always get to tell all other generations that they are spoiled! 

2. For once Christmas is the cheapest month of the year.

3. People stop complaining about their jobs.. those who are lucky enough to still have jobs.

4. You yourself have become a lot more appreciative of your job. You can't afford to hate it.

5. You always have a great excuse for spending money ("we're never gonna get out of the crisis if we stop spending!")

6. Less CO2 outlet.. no way we can afford to keep up the old outlet with these gas prices.

7. Yet another good reason to be thankful that you live in Europe and not in North America.

8. Economics classes in school suddenly seem relevant. Terms such as "hysteresis" and "the business cycle" becomes easy to remember and relate to real life situations.

9. Being bound to the EU´s Euro rather than the British pound or American dollar no longer seems risky.

10. USA is running out of money to spend on their war on - well - everything! The war on terror, war on drugs, dictatorship, communism, you name it! (they'll take right about any excuse to bomb other continents).